"Never Evers s"

Never go back to the past and replay scenes in your head over and over again.

Never ever go back to the old self that once ruined your soul. 

Never ever believe in those lies people told you,  NEVER.

Never bring yourself as low as those people who do bad to you.

Never let your genetics determine who you are.

Never become someone whom you thought you will never be.

Never love others without loving yourself.

Never listen to your negative depressing thoughts in your head, REJECT them.

Never let the world engulf you into flames and get you internally burnt to death.

Never let anyone's judgement be the power over your future.

Never ever give up even if you are feeling super overwhelmed.

Never let your emotions be the head of your decisions or judgments.

Never do something you hate forever.

Never choose a rich life over happiness.

Never let yourself be a rebound of anyone.

Never be with someone who angers you all the time.

Never be blinded because of love.

Never think that death is the only option.

Never ignore the signs life gives you.

Never lower your standards just because you are lonely.

Never be so silly that you forgot how to love yourself.

Never hold grudges as it only ruins yourself.

Never waste your time on quarrelling with immature people.

Never become a person who is full of lies, nonsense and lastly all the shits in the world which is endless.

Imperfection

Imperfection is normal, imperfection is within each and everyone of us. We are all mostly striving hard for every day life, hoping to achieve good things or even the best. It can be really tiring at times. Especially, the perfectionism in me can sometimes cause me to be really shag or dissappointed at myself. Self-expectations are good, but too many expectations can only stress oneself and may reep bad fruits in your life. I just felt that i want to share this with you guys who are feeling weary or tired of striving.

Number 1 - You are NOT ALONE.

 Everyone has their own expectations, worries, fears and doubts. Sometimes, as humans we do forget that the competition is not among us and others, but is the fight within us that constantly battles for our lives. Because of the self-condemnation, self-doubt and enviness, we can be blinded by our true purpose for how we started this battle. For example, if you are aiming to be top in the level , but people are overtaking you and want to compete with you, you may feel the stress and dissatifaction. But trust me, it is not worth a second of your time in competiting strongly against anyone. Personally, i am a competitive individual, who aims very high once i set a goal. I realised many things ranging from studies to reputation, as long as you focused on your own journey and ONLY your own journey without looking at others, you can truly spend the wise amount of time on your goals as it can rob you from the joy during the process.

Number 2- Know yourself well and take PROPER action.

Know your body, mind and health as well as you know about your favourite idols or person.

You need to ensure that you are doing things every day life without neglecting too much of your mental and physical health. There are many cases where people are too overwhelmed by either workload at work or personal issues, they commit suicide or sink into depression. You need to know your limits, do your best to save yourself from the palms of the devil. Personally i think emphasis on personal awareness is EXTREMELY important. Without taking care of your own inner issues,usually can be a great obstruction to your goals and happiness. Therefore, understanding yourself is the primary key to succeeding in life.

Number 3- importance of TRULY accepting imperfections exists in our life like its no big deal.

It is important you tell yourself from time to time, " it is okay, to fail this time.", "It is okay not to be the best" , "It is okay if I am different from others" , "It is okay to forgive myself". Only when you accept the outcome, only then you can really focus on your future goals and forget the pasts. Just like a very young child, by nature they believe in the good in life, they have a simple and forgiving mindset towards themselves. After they burst into tears out of sadness or anger, they can be happy and alright the very next moment. We need to learn to contain a child-like faith, a faith that brings in much more happiness and hope in life.

Number 4- Keep CALM and let go of whatever that is hindering your growth.
Failures and setbacks might make one doubt their skills and ability, or their worth. But, not to forget that you cannot control the people or environment that you are in. But, YOU CAN control your mind, emotions and thoughts as long as you allow to train yourself to take PROPER control. nobody can tell you WHO you are as a person or WHAT is within you. Let me share with you a simple thought that helps me think positively, " Over time, do those negative, temporary situations matter?" What i usually do is to let everything that is unbeneficial to not steal my joy. Nowadays, as each new trial comes ahead,  the time i dwell on negative thoughts or worries keeps on decreasing. It is important to cultivate a habit of positive lifestyle.

I know it can be hard at times to get through trials, but as you feed yourself with positivity, love and joy, many things in you life can fall into place! It just takes time and effort to grow yourself as a person and fill yourself up again! Remember that things can get tougher, but YOU my friend, can GET STRONGER! I believe in all of you readers. You are much more capable and stronger than you ever know.

Hope you guys find this helpful! Lots of love! xo

Love in Christ

Your love changes me inside out, you love gives me peace and hope.

You shower me with endless grace, a love that cannot ever be compared.

You loved us so much that you sacrificed your only Son, and give us chances to rest in your loving embrace.

You calm my fears, bring me out of the darkness and took me out of bondages.

How loved I am, that I am righteous not by self obedience, but by Jesus' Obendience.

You gave me the best gift, which is to rest and cast all my cares upon you, giving me overflowing favour and grace.

You provides lasting freedom from my sins, and received undeserving love by knowing that i am righteousness of God in Christ.

You helped me out from the battle of my mind, putting all condemning thoughts out of my head.

You washed me clean and I am cleansed forever.

You constantly bless with me people, opportunities and save me from bad circumstances.

You made me shine like never before, and replace bitterness with gloriousness and grace.

You are the lover of my soul, the hiding place whenever I am feeling down.

I am eternally transformed by your grace, always looking towards You and not my circumstances nor people.

Nothing is like the love i experienced in Christ, it is the best thing that ever happened to me.

Senerity

Senerity within a person can be acquired when...

You learn how to deal stress and anxiety through experiences that taught you.

You are able to sleep in peace knowing you have a clear conscience.

You forgive others and forgive yourself.

Not swallowing the poison which you drank in it your own will.

You are patient and taking actions on the things you want to achieve.

You are more aware of yourself and others' actions.

You know it is okay to rest and give yourself a short break from things in life.

You take action more than you speak.

You know what are your top priorities.

You be yourself, and love yourself and others.

You do not compete with others.

You focus on peace and harmony, not focus on your pride.

You are open-minded and understanding towards different people.

You know you have done your best and have no regrets.

You learn from each lessons that life taught you, so you will not repeat the cycle.

You learn to feed on your wisdom and not pride.

You stay away from people who are negative and drains you out.

You choose your close friends wisely.

You do not overthink, use your mind instead of your heart thus you will be able to see thing more logically.

You learn to reflect upon your actions and change your bad habits and improve own flaws.

You do not allow excuses to take charge of the important things in life.

You are not bitter and easily angered.

You are confident in yourself.

You are wise enough to let go of the pasts.

You focus on the present and things that matter.

You do not gossip and spread rumours.

You are able to control your mind and train yourself to think positively.

You really know your worth, and stop pleasing others.

You pray and have faith that things will work out.

You do not let emotions overtake your intellectual.

You learn how to treat others with respect.

You are not impulsive and trigger your loved ones to be angered.

You know how to be a person and treat people with humility.

You do not wish others bad.

You focus on being a rightful person instead of criticizing others.

You look yourself in the mirror before judging others.

You learn how to give yourself and others time to grow and figure out.

You know your stand and know how to be assertive.

You know that you are precious, you are loved.

"You are the living vine"

"You are the living vine, you are my strength.

You supply me with never ending goodness, you shaped and grow me.

You never gave up on me, and fight for my "battles" when im "dry".

You cleanse me deep, you bring life into me.

You are the vine that flows in me, you provide me with consistent care.

You lift me up, you make me grow stronger each time.

You allow me to bear fruits, you make it effortless for me.

You are the nutrients to my life, the key to my life.

You showed me my purpose, you lead me the way.

You give me hope,  and i put my entire trust in you.

You give me health, you allow me to mature and bear good fruits.

You are intertwined with me, your unconditional ways are eternal.

You are love, you are the lover of my soul.

Your name is Jesus. "

Be strong

Our What ifs...

"What if I am really nothing and useless like what that person says about me?"

"What if things go wrong and everything crumbles down and my soul gets broken?"

"What if I get cancer like how my father did and die at a young age?"

"What if my qualifications aren't enough for me to get a good job?"

"What if I am not able to survive this semester at school?

"What if I am not good enough and everyone hates me?"

"What if people keep taking advantage of my kindness?"

In your heads..

"I am really useless!"

"I am a hopeless person! Why am i even on this planet?"

"I am ugly, no one likes me."

"I am not good enough, I will never be."

"I can't take it anymore, it is killing me."

"Why do i deserve this treatment? why am i born this way?"

Person A: 

Decides to dwell on the troubles and negative thoughts. He dives into negative emotions, shuts himself up and builds walls around himself. As time passes, he gets into the cycle of defeated lifestyle. Every day living with self-absorbed mindset,self-doubt, anxiety and depression. But he

has yet to know clearly, he not only hurts himself, but people around him who cares for him.

[A form of self-righteousness]

Person B:

Gets out of the negative thoughts after awhile, surrounds herself with positive people, finds solutions to the problems. Never gives up on being positive and maintains a healthy level of faith in humanity. She continues to be herself and be hopeful. She focuses on things that matter and worthy of her time. Nothing can stop her from being empathetic, kind, generous and loving to others.

[Strong soul]

Moral of the story:
No matter how many times you fall, stand up boldly and fight against your weaknesses and problems. Regardless of hardships, failures and disappointments, the BIGGEST mistake you can ever do to yourself is giving up on life and humanity. Once you become numb, if you go deeper, it becomes harder to get out of defeated life. And you know what makes you? You may become one of the person you once hated. They may be heartless, unkind, silly and have no life. Once you given up on life and people, you start to go on the wrong path they went through. You will be self-absorbed all day long, self-centred and hurt people around who love and cares for you. Thus, be wise on your decision making, love yourself enough to let go of those negative pasts and thoughts. Lastly, note that only when you love yourself enough, then you are able to love others wholly.

A psalm of David.

1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing. 

2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, 

3 he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. 

4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley,I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 

5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.

"Its time to STOP saying next time"

Its time to stop saying next time, its time to stop saying tomorrow.
Wake up from those dreamy restless days, start doing something beneficial.
Time waits for no one, only YOU can make a difference in your life.
Stop pondering about useless things, stop thinking of the past.
Strengthen your heart, strengthen your mind through different ways.
Go read some inspirational books, listen to your favourite music.
Be in tune with worldly affairs, go take up an activity which grows you.
Do the things you love, explore more things and you'll find out more about yourself.
Go do something productive , make your days count.
Do not neglect the little details in you life, as they all add up, and make a BIG difference in your life.
Start challenging yourself for GREATER things, and reach for your dreams.
If you do not reach the moon, at least you'll land among the stars.
Be proactive, be initiative in many things you do and STOP waiting for it to happen.
Go tell a loved one how much you love them, show it to them through your ways.
Stop being stubborn and egoistic, be gentle and treat everyone with humility.
Spend time with people who grows you, connects with you and genuinely loves you.
Be who you are, learn how to love yourself first before loving others.
Go make someone smile, make a difference in someone's life.
Be a good example, be an inspiration, be a useful person.
Be a great cheer leader, be an awesome partner, be the best daughter you can ever be.
No one knows when is the last day on earth for each and everyone of us.
Cherish life, start acting and start being the best version of yourself my friend.
There will be no room for regrets, as long as you start now.
You own your own remote control, your future is in YOUR hands.